He said..

He said .. Jenn .. "Sometimes things don't always go the way you imagined. "
I mean I heard him .. but not until 4 years later when I look at his son's new born photo do I actually grasp the words.
He Said . Jenn " I really Do care about you and we can get through this".
I mean I heard him .. But I left anyways.. but not until 2 years later do I really grasp the feelings of his words.

He said Jenn " You will be fine with out me, this isn't working "  I mean I heard him.. , but even though at the time it felt crushing, 6 months later I really grasp the truth in his words,

I am good listener when the heart isn't involved..
Lesson Learned .. Always listen to what he says..