Second chance Tuesdays

So to give or get a second chance at a relationship is the question for the new year. Are there any real rules and regulations to this...? No.. Ofcourse not. It is a case by case, heart of the matter kind of situation. A good friend of mine got in to this situation where her ex played her.not even on some cheating shit, like messing for her livelyhood.. After all was said he wanted to come back, with words of him being a changed man.. She kinda took his word .. And viola!! He didn't... I myself being in similar situations have given into that second chance tuesday programming and sometimes there is new problems but not old problems... People grow... Sometimes up and sometimes apart. And maybe sometimes not at all. At the end of the day u need to analyze the reason why that person left ur side. If they didn't cheat, stab your momma, or take ur dough.. What's wrong with a second chance??? I mean seriously... Better to know.. Then to sit around and wonder ..